I’m hesitant to give “tips” for relationships. I’m asked fairly often to do so, but I find  the notion of “tips” reductionistic – couples and families can be really complex.  I tend to encourage clients to consider where they are in the family life cycle, and the challenges of the developmental tasks at hand.  This involves generative conversations which give way to more nuanced, expansive thinking. 

But when I find such a concise and helpful piece of writing by a trusted colleague, I want to share far and wide. 

Such is the case with Dr. Sheila Addison’s latest interview, 5 Conversations to Have with your Partner before Moving in Together.

Dr. Addison suggests that couples discuss the meaning of home, boundaries w/ friends and family, daily needs, financial values, and how to handle conflict. 

I urge all those considering this move to read her advice, especially if it is your first time taking this step with a partner.

Read the full article here.