Every so often I read something that speaks to a yet unarticulated thought or idea about my work with couples and families. Such was the case when I read NY Times columnist David Brooks’s article “Three Views of Marriage.” He describes three prevailing perspectives on marriage: the psychological, the romantic, and, what he calls the moral view. It was Brooks’s description of the moral view that spoke to me. As a couple and family therapist, I am witness to the transformational power of …