There’s a name for that: Cognitive labor

One of the conflicts most often brought to my office is about the division of labor in the family. Pain and resentment can accumulate and run deep over who does what around the home, and with the children.  Partners can feel devalued, and taken advantage of.   Particularly with both partners working outside of the home, the question arises: What does it take to make a family household run?  Some years ago, I became aware of the notions of physical labor

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A Little #MeToo for Men

Several heterosexual couples in my clinical practice have struggled of late with issues related to the #MeToo movement.  Memories can surface for the female partner that engender feelings of rage, tremendous pain, and fear. Trainees ask how best to help navigate these important, but potentially difficult conversations between the couple.  The work of unpacking the dominant norms of masculinity and their subsequent impact on relationship can indeed be a daunting task in the hour allotted for couples therapy. Both for couples and the therapists who

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Dr Hudak featured in Wall Street Journal article, “Here’s When Family Therapy Can Help”

I am so grateful to have had the opportunity to speak with award winning author, Elizabeth Bernstein, who writes the Bonds column for the Wall Street Journal. She and I spoke, literally, for hours, about families and family therapy; she really captured the value of this approach to treatment. Here’s the link to the full article. For those without access to the WSJ, here’s a bit of the content.  You can also try to find it on Google News. What is

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Rites of Passage: Initiation into the Culture of Psychiatry

Puneet Chawla Sahota, MD, PhD “Over many generations, healers have learned from one another, passing down wisdom gained in their lifetimes of clinical practice. Internship was my chance to be part this legacy…” I’m so happy to share this blog post by medical anthropologist and Penn psychiatry resident Puneet Chawla Sahota, MD, PhD. Physician burnout is increasingly discussed in popular media, and of course, residency programs. I am now over a year into my psychiatry residency, and have found perspectives

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About Me

Dr. Hudak is dedicated to bringing research about the family into public discourses, weaving together the private stories that portray the often hidden cultural landscapes of our time. She is a popular speaker with both professional and lay audiences, addressing topics pertaining to relationships and the family life cycle.