I’m hesitant to give “tips” for relationships. I’m asked fairly often to do so, but I find  the notion of “tips” reductionistic – couples and families can be really complex.  I tend to encourage clients to consider where they are in the family life cycle, and the challenges of the developmental tasks at hand.  This involves generative conversations which give way to more nuanced, expansive thinking.  But when I find such a concise and helpful piece of writing by …