Coming Back Together: A guide for successful reintegration after your partner returns from military deployment, by Steven Sayers (New Harbinger publications, 2014)  is a terrific  book for spouses and partners of  deployed service  members and veterans.  For many years,  families of servicemen and women were given scant attention by those treating veterans with post deployment issues.   As we understand more about  the toll that long deployments take on their partners and children,  and the difficulties of reintegrating into civilian life, …